Those of you who follow my blog regularly know that I founded a critiquing group called The Diligent Writers Critiquing Group. Last Saturday we had our third meeting. Only 3 people showed up out of the seven that RSVP.
A good friend, who originally was going to do the group with me stopped by, she got side tracked by taking college classes. It had been years since she attended classes and was overwhelmed with the work involved so she opted out of the group for now. It was good to see her and have her come. I started the group without her because I needed feedback for my work. I’m glad I did and she is always welcome to be apart of it.
A new writer came to the meeting, it was nice having him and he had much to contribute in critiquing. However he became entranced with my girlfriend and manipulated her time and did most of the talking. I was getting quite annoyed.
As the host it is my job to keep us on track. I had to put a stop to it and allow everyone a chance to speak. I tried not to let it bother me that he was taking my girlfriends time because I don’t get to see her that much. She is a very good writer and extremely knowledgeable, not to mention a great person.
I will have to have lunch with her another time just the two of us. I decided.
With only the four of us, the group was cozy and gave us a chance to really discuss our works in progress. The restaurant also had a good atmosphere and food. Everyone had a chance to read and get feedback. We even had time to do a writing prompt, which was great fun.
Surveys went to the group for the group feedback. Hopefully the changes will make the difference in whether the group stays great or become a group of Famous Writers, and every one of them published. (Here’s to wishing.)
Once again the group was great. I learned a lot and received good critiquing on a short story I did. Thanks to all who came and look forward to the next session. Until next time.
Hi Rhonda,
ReplyDeleteIt is interesting what occurs when you run a group. Everyone has their individual intentions, and as the group facilitator it can be a challenge to keep it on track. Congrats that you've started such a group, group feedback can be so encouraging as well as a learning experience for all.